Logic fail. This is a typical mistake by people who have poor critical thinking skills.Julie wrote:And your problem is that you meant to say 'minimize', but obviously screwed up.
The word "optimize" was chosen carefully.
As I explained in my followup comments (There again are your problems with reading and comprehension.), it it unhealthy to minimize emotional stress. This is what a hermit tries to do. This is what some overly-protective parents try to do with a child and the results are bad. Healthy social engagement always has a level of emotional stress.
You have bought into the poor paradigm that "stress is bad".
Never encounter emotional stress and you become a vegetable. The human body, mind and soul were made to endure stress and respond appropriately to it and grow and thrive. No emotional stress equals no emotional growth.
I will never say "minimize emotional stress".