washed tube days ago, still not dry, scared of legionaires..

Let me be the first to apologize. My remark was a little "tongue and cheek"and I didn't mean to hurt your feelings. You sound like a teenager with OSA and I'm very happy for you that your being treated, now, and not 20 years from now when so much damage could have been done.
Sometimes we expect our girls to do more than the boys simply because they are girls and we expect them to have more "inborn ability" to keep the place clean. It's not fair in the least, but change is hard.