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Moderate sleep apnea and sensitive sleeper. Tried CPAP for >1 year, but eventually was not able to fall asleep with it. MAD did not work well enough. Now on CPAP again, and really need to make it work this time...
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I'm 34 year old female, and have been suffering from fatigue since my 20s. At that time I was diagnosed with hypothyroidism, but even after getting the medication in balance for that, the fatigue never left. I do have a small jaw, and had a dental device because of that as a kid, but I suppose in the end the device only made enough space for my wisdom's teeth and nothing else. Combining small jaw with hypothyroidism, I suspect that I got sleep apnea as a not-so-nice additional bonus already back then. The main problems were (and currently are) daytime fatigue and excessive need for sleep at night (around 10-12h + naps sometimes). I was not that sleepy during daytime (not dozing off at odd places or anything like that), so that might have contributed to my difficulties getting a diagnosis for OSA back then.
Over the years I tried to seek help for the fatigue and exhaustion from the student healthcare services, which first resulted in trying different doses of thyroid medication. To the point where I even had drug-induced hyperthyroidism (which usually makes sleeping pretty difficult), but I was sleeping the same long hours, only my resting heart rate was >100 BPM


Four years ago, I stumbled on a doctor who suspected sleep issues and sent me to a polysomnogram, which showed I had very mild sleep apnea (AHI 6.5, RDI 14.8 ). I was pretty happy to find out that there actually was something measurably wrong, and I was not just crazy after all... However, as the OSA was mild, I was just instructed to try to lose weight, have some melatonin, and that's it.
Early 2018 I finally found a doctor who has taken the fatigue seriously. He sent me to a new PSG, which now showed moderate OSA (AHI 12.3, RDI 20.2). He wanted me to try CPAP, as he thinks that the weight loss is not going to happen before the sleep issues have been solved. I got used to sleeping with it in a week or so (pressures back then were 6.2-20 cmH2O, and I had P10, otherwise the same setup as now). After some time on CPAP I had maybe two weeks when I had something I remember describing as "lots of energy, but not in a good way", as I felt a bit hyperactive at that time. Then the fatigue and excessive sleeping came back, but my doctor thought this was rebound sleep so nothing to worry about.
When the fatigue still was there after a few months, he wanted yet another PSG (with CPAP) just in case. This time, it showed I had periodic leg movement disorder on top of OSA (AHI was 3.6 and RDI 9.4 in this one, with CPAP). I got medication for the PLMD. When even after some time the fatigue was still there, I tried a different PLMD medication, but that did not work for the fatigue either so I got back to the first one.
So far (after the usual hiccups in the beginning) I had slept well with the CPAP, but now I started to have trouble with it. Suddenly falling asleep with it was difficult, I would take the mask off in my sleep. Even if I initially was able to fall asleep with it, I would wake up at some point and not be able to fall asleep again. This was pretty weird as I got used to the machine pretty fast in the beginning. The conducted noise from the P10 vents bothered me the most, I even got a new P10 as I thought the old one was broken, but the noise was the same. However, without CPAP I had absolutely no trouble falling asleep. Again a PSG (#4) with CPAP, this time AHI 4.6 and RDI 18.7, no other abnormal findings. Now I think that the CPAP was not really doing it's job, but back then the doctor first wanted to address the falling/staying asleep issue. Tried a couple of different medications for that, but in the end doctor suggested getting a dental device. At this point I had been on CPAP for more than a year.
MAD resolved the falling asleep problem, but not fatigue, although for a while I had a bit better time with that. Even went through CBT-i just to keep the doctor happy, but eventually he had to admit that this is not a sleep hygiene or insomnia issue. So, yet another sleep study (no EEG this time) with the MAD showed AHI of 7.7. I should add that in addition to the sleep studies I have had other possible causes such as thyroid problems, ferritin levels and diabetes checked, but the blood tests have come back normal.
So, now I'm again on CPAP, as there seems to be no other option. My doctor seems to be convinced that this is a sleep-breathing related problem. I started CPAP again two weeks ago, and the last couple of nights I have been able to sleep through the night with it, about 10h each. I got first the N30i and later P30i, which really did the trick for being comfortable enough to sleep. The pressure settings are also different from before, now it is auto from 8-18 with EPR 1. I'm still tired during the day, but this early on I'm not worried about that too much.
What does worry me is how I can avoid the problems that occurred the first time (insomnia), and how I can make sure that the CPAP actually helps the breathing problems this time? So far I have been doing as the doctors have told me, being maybe more patient than I should, but I feel I now need to take a more active role in this. I would really appreciate any tips or comments you can give that might help me to get this right this time. I have attached an OSCAR report below from the same night as PSG #4, so at least it seems that the machine back then did not recognize all the apnea and hypopnea events. According to the PSG I had in total 6 central apneas (no obstructive at all), 30 hypopneas and 111 flow limitations, but the machine thinks I had 4 centrals and 1 obstructive, and caught none of the hypopneas. I'm not sure how to interpret the flow limitation graph.
Thank you for taking the time reading this far. I will be grateful for any comments you might be able to give.